Even though you can't control how men feel about you, you can control your chances of meeting the right guy.
All you have to do is turn the following actions into habits, because they'll boost your chances of finding love:
1. Go out More
The more often you leave the house, the more boys you'll meet. You can't sit inside all day and expect your life to change. You have to push it to change. Even if you join a dating site, because you hate the idea of socializing face-to-face, you're eventually going to have to leave the house. Otherwise, the boys you've been messaging will never become your boyfriend.
2. Make the First Move
You shouldn't wait around for your crush to ask you out. It'll only stress you out. That's why it's better for you to do the dirty work yourself. If he turns you down, then he turns you down. Get right back on the horse by finding another guy to ask out. Eventually, someone will say yes and you'll live your happily ever after.
3. Go out on More First Dates
First dates won't always lead to second dates. If there's not a spark during your first time out together, you don't owe each other anything. It's better for you to go on another first date with a new man than to keep going out with the same guy and expecting things to change.So date around! It'll be easier to find Mr. Right that way.
4. Dress Your Best
You don't have to slip into a tiny skirt and revealing top to get a man's attention. If you feel more confident in sweatpants and a sweater, then that's what you should wear. The more you like your outfit, the more you're going to like the body beneath the outfit. That means you'll start feeling more confident, and you'll be more willing to approach men.
5. Know What You Want
You have to figure out what you want before you can find it. That's why you should sit down after every breakup you go through and list out the things you disliked about your ex. That way, you won't end up dating the same type of destructive guy in the future. You'll be able to learn from your past relationships.
6. Believe That It’ll Happen
You have to think positively. If you assume that no boy will ever fall in love with you, then you're going to psych yourself out. Optimism works wonders. So try to remember how amazing you are, because then it'll be easier for men to see how amazing you are.
7. Surround Yourself with Happy Couples
If your friends are all in miserable relationships, then there's a good chance you'll end up in a miserable relationship, as well. Why? Because you'll think that it's normal for women to constantly cry and complain about their boyfriends. That's why you need to surround yourself with happy couples. They'll be good influences.
If you do all of these things, then you'll have a greater chance of falling in love and being loved in return.